And even when I let it out of my chest, it wasn’t love. Telling someone you love them doesn’t mean that you do.In a lengthy Rolling Stone article, Kitti Jones, a former personality for DFW hip-hop/R&B station KBFB/97.9 “The Beat,” alleges that she suffered abuse during a two-year relationship with R&B superstar R. Kelly has told the magazine that the allegations are false.In 2011, she quit her job at the Beat and moved into Kelly’s Chicago apartment.
In July of this year, Jim De Rogatis, a Chicago-based rock critic and journalist (and former Rolling Stone senior editor), wrote an article for Buzz Feed headlined “R.Physical abuse increased, as did food and phone deprivation, she says.She tells Rolling Stone that she even considered suicide. She and the singer stayed in touch by phone, and the conversations were amicable. Why wasn’t I getting reciprocal lovey-doveyness when we were first married? From Disney movies to my favorite shows like “The Office” to practically every pop song released, love is constantly sold as an emotion we have before we’re married. And that’s why my wife just gave me that half-smile. And now that I’ve tried to change the way I look at love, the more I become shocked at the messages of love I had gotten when I was younger.