I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. I don't have time for that behavior—that's why I like mature women." "She was very beautiful and caring and we had similar interests.
She offered me the opportunity to see another perspective on a lot of different issues. She made me realize how important I could be in making someone else happy.
He explained, often quite humorously, how ridiculous he felt trying to have meaningful conversation over blaring music at a dance club. You know this is the kind of person who's going to tell you exactly what they want and they are more sure of themselves than the people my age or younger.
His brief experimentation with younger females only reaped endless head games, confusion and immature behavior. They were great friends and then she began to pursue him. Older women are much more well rounded—they know what they feel and why they feel it."I have a preference for women starting at about 10 years older than myself and up.
We are both morning people and nearly always in a good mood.
We are both hard-working with many hobbies in common.
The ability to talk about anything with her was refreshing and engaging.
Pat offered me space, devotion and herself, which I couldn't find in anyone else. She is a best friend who reflects back to me what a good person I am, which builds my confidence and self-esteem.
I now have a better job and feel better about myself than ever before."—Neil, 35"I find that I'm attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. I enjoy sitting down to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation I can appreciate and enjoy. They have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. It's really a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive.
Recently, this woman underwent major surgery and it was her ex-boyfriend Fred, not the woman's current older boyfriend, who was by her side.
Gretchen, now 44, was involved with a man of 51 and he was simply too busy with work and personal commitments to be available when she really needed him.