The little innocent doe in you (in most cases) braves itself up and walks curiously ahead. He’s a married man, and you know you don’t want to fall, but he’s such an emotional wreck, and the most striking part of it all is, he’s totally in love with you. Now, you warm up to him to shower him with happiness, and the next thing you know, you’re snogging him in hallways of movie theaters and bouncing off walls in your apartment, all in the purpose of making him a happier man! You’re dating a married man, and you want him all for yourself.You’re flattered to know he loves you, no man who’s so sweet has ever told you something like that. [Read: Cheating in a relationship] And unknown to you, you’re preparing yourself for the inevitable. The wife and the other woman The worst part of all this is that you’d never really want to be in this place, but somehow, you find yourself here. All of a sudden, you’re not just another nice girl.Click here to read the experience of having an affair with a married man from the beginning.Of all the relationships you can get into as a girl, dating a married man is one of the worst kinds.And it always starts with the same feelings of confusion, hesitation and attraction.And women, by nature are completely helpless in such circumstances.
A man who came of age in the 1970s or '80s doesn't think twice about being married to a woman with her own career, or splitting the household chores with her.There is no way he’s ready to do that, even if your closet love goes on for a few years. You wake up feeling cheated, used and totally and miserably helpless. But all this is just the tip of the iceberg of problems when you have a relationship with married men.Click here to know how all this can make you a home wrecker and the other woman.He’d love you physically, but his emotions still stay with his real family.This can piss off just about anyone, especially when they’re so madly in love, but the promise of better things to come in the ‘near’ future and the sex is just too good of a promise to spurn the advances of a married man.