The divorce itself came and went – my ex-wife NOT being able to make a claim on any more of my property, so I kept my house, car and sanity, despite all her threats.
She and her new partner split up, she moved into a tiny flat completely unsuited to a two year old.
We also had a very young son – at the time she met this other man he was still not two years old and I dreaded what a break up of our marriage would do to our child.
Although I was usually working long hours, when at home I loved to spend time with my son right from the day he was born.
Make sure it's clearly seen as defensive though and, if possible, that a witness is present.
They have to go through their routines even if they don't believe anything has happened.Then in the New Year things started, slowly, to pick up again.First, my ex-wife dumped our son on me, as she couldn't cope/didn't want him and her new partner was not interested.Martin shares his story about how he eventually obtained a residency order against the odds: Two years ago my ex-wife had an affair with a much older man.I was aware that something wasn't right in our relationship, but I guess I was in denial because I didn't want to consider the break up of what had been a very happy marriage up until that point.